Adolescence is an exciting stage for young people, and a challenging time for many parents. Some teens think they know everything, and they are ready to take the world. The rebellious attitude, defiance, sudden change of using foul language, irresponsible behavior, hanging out with the wrong crowds, violation of the curfew, substance abuse, sexual activity, skipping classes or truancy, and slipping grades frustrate or devastate you as parents.
Discipline without relationship brings rebellion. Thus, the most important task as parents of teens is to connect with your teens and let them know that you love them. But love without boundaries is not safe for teens and most frustrating for parents.
At Orlando Family Counseling, we will listen to your teens and counsel them to set their goals, to identify their negative thought patterns (styles of irrational or dysfunctional thinking, self-downing cycle), and to learn to replace with positive and constructive self talks. Teens will learn to develop a specific plan to reach their goals. We will assist you to set and communicate clear expectations with your teens and to decide consequences for the expectation reached or not reached. With consistency, you and your teens will start building a healthier and more constructive relationship. The outcome for your teenager would be a well adjusted young adult who displays the following attitude and behaviors: “I Can!” “I Care!” and “I Respect!” I call these “The Triple I’s to Success.” With your newly acquired strategies and your consistency in implementation, we are confident that you and your teens will experience a more pleasant relationship.
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